In 1989, the ice storm arrived as predicted. I warned Mother that we might not be able to make the dangerous eight-hour journey for Christmas.
Even though Southeast Texas seldom experienced freezing rain or snow, we already saw evidence of the storm in Arkansas. But Mother belittled our fears and urged us to attempt the trip. "The weather report here looks okay to me."
Mother's pressure prevailed again, as usual. Against our better judgment, we submitted to her demands and packed our car.
Snow and ice covered the roads from Central Arkansas to Southeast Texas. We held our breath and prayed as we witnessed stranded motorists and dozens of accidents. Cars spun off the road all around us, but we continued in spite of the hazardous road conditions.

"Watch out!" I yelled, as a black sport car darted around us on the shoulder of the road.
"Eeee!!!" our 14-year-old daughter, Tara, screamed.
"Be quiet, and let Dad drive!" her older brother, Adam, complained.
The argument and complaints continued from the back seat.
Tara begged, "Dad, would you stop at the next exit?"
"We just stopped! We’ll never get there at this rate!" Adam griped.
My husband, Dan, sighed as he gripped the wheel, dreading the long drive with sleep depravation and three other restless passengers. More than just the icy weather chilled the atmosphere in our car with two teenagers and two cranky adults on board.
We reached the halfway mark in our journey after 12 long hours, due to the slick roads and traffic accidents. Exhausted, we searched some fast food and a cheap hotel room. Dragging my suitcase behind me, I looked back at the luggage carrier on our car and asked, "Are our gifts locked up?"
"Nope!" Dan sneered.
When I called my mother about our delay, I sensed her anxiety. Without electricity, her concern for her own comfort and safety emerged.
After another risky eight-hour drive, we pulled into Mother's driveway. By that time, Dan and I only grunted at each other when necessary. And our teens feared to utter one word of complaint. So, we all bailed out of the car, hoping to find solace inside. But when my stepfather peeped out the window, I knew more trouble lurked on the other side of the door. Mother greeted us with the news of lost power. So, stranded without electricity, our tempers flared in the dark, nippy atmosphere.
Soon, we discovered our extended families had cancelled the holiday parties because our local relatives feared traveling across town. I sensed the tension building, and I feared tempers might spew any second from this pressure cooker environment.
As we unpacked our gifts, the framed pictures of our children, slid off the icy hood of the car and broke into a thousand pieces. When we arrived home a few days later, we received a call from my mother-in-law. Apparently, the crystal clock we gave her exploded when it thawed after we left.
When I told Dan and the kids about the clock, we all laughed.
"I promise--I'll never let Mother persuade us to travel that far on the dangerous, icy roads again--even for a Christmas party.
Dan just shook his head and snickered, "Right!"
© 2009 Karen Jordan All Rights Reserved
Photo/Dan Jordan (Mom cooking for Christmas)
Photo/Dan Jordan (Adam and Tara posing by Christmas tree)
Photo/Mary Jordan (Tara, Adam, Karen, and Dan posing for annual Christmas picture)